what young generation think in general ?

some thing according to me young generation think and act about :

·         Please do not play SAFE. I have seen this with a lot of people. Most of us are too reluctant to get out of our comfort zone. We will crib about our jobs. Our life. Being friend zoned. But we won't do anything about it. Because we are deep down afraid of being rejected. Afraid of failing. The worse thing that can happen if you tell that girl you like her is that she will say No. At least from then on you can get back to your life and not worry about whether she likes you or not. If you are 20 something and stuck in a dead end job, please try out something different. Join a start up or do something on your own. The consequences of failing at this point is very less. You don't have a family to feed. Or just travel. See the world. Do it for a month after taking a leave from your job. Just make some changes. Soon you will be  40 year old with two kids and wonder if you should have taken those chances.

·         Do not get married because you are a 27 years old and needs someone to talk at night and have regular sex. Get married because you have found someone you are willing to spend the rest of your life with.

·         If you are a guy, do NOT demand dowry. At least tell your parents not to do so. If you are a girl please do not lower your self esteem by paying that. India is a country of 1.27 billion people. You will find someone sooner or later. Respect yourself enough to say No.

·         It is high time we stop caring about things like caste and religion. Please do not judge anyone because he is from a different religion. Do not under estimate anyone because he is from a lower caste. People don't end up in the places they are born by their choice. Do not feel proud because of your skin color, caste, creed, gotra, star sign and whatever. (Feel free to add more to the list. I have never been good with these stuff). Feel proud of something you have done in this life which has made a difference to you or society.

·         Don't keep giving excuses and get your shit together. I see people crying on Internet forums over reservations, politics and what not. Let me tell you a secret. There are still students every year who enter IITs, NITs, IIITs, IIMs without any reservation. Feel free to join BITS. There is no reservation here. But do that only if you are interested in Engineering and not because some neighborhood aunty told you that you will excel in life only if you pass out of these colleges.

·         If possible try to fall in love and get married. Every human being should have the potential to find his/her mate. Once you find someone have the courage to tell your parents. It is 21st century. If not now then when?

·         Stop gossiping. If there is a girl who dates a lot, it doesn't mean that she is loose or a slut. It just means that she wants to find the guy she is maximum compatible with. Similarly don't judge a guy and say he is this and that. It is their fucking life. Live and let live. Don't be like those creepy self righteous  organization people who hide behind park trees during evenings to chase out couples just because they are super lame and probably never been with a girl their entire life.

·         Stop fighting on Internet forums over who is better - Salman Khan or Shah Rukh, Hindu or Muslim, India or Pakistan, BJP or Congress. It is a total waste of time and really really lame. That is why I rarely argue with people who leave nasty comments on my answers sometimes. A simple down vote always does wonders.

·         Don't keep asking advice on internet forums. Most advice is recycled shit and memes posted from the internet you will find yourself if you Google. Ask for information instead and their side of the story. Don't ask "Should I do this?". Ask "What made you do that?"

·         Decrease the time you spend on social networking sites. Most people there are not what they seem. People will pretend to be all happy, excited over their dream jobs, new city and what not. You will never see people telling you the bad part. It is just a way of escape from most people's mundane existence. Simplystop judging your self esteem on the number of LIKEs you get. You are beautiful anyways. You don't need creepy dudes on facebook commenting "Looking so nice Sundari. Go Bollywood" to know that. If possible leave facebook, WhatsApp, Gtalk for a few days. Trust me your life will improve. You won't feel the need to update people about what you had for lunch, where you just went, what you did today and all that. You will live in the moment. You will enjoy the experiences more. What makes me say that? I deactivated my mobile internet plan a month back. I went off facebook for a few months. I removed WhatsApp and facebook messenger. The only network I spend my time on is Quora. That is because I am an information addict and like to express my opinion on various issues which fascinate me.